妈妈带十几岁儿子进女更衣室，网友看到后炸了！对此你咋看？
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p style="text-align: center;" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">近日，博主“马库斯说”</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">在微博发帖引发网友热议。</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">有网友反馈，在当地一家游泳馆，</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">“我们这儿的游泳馆更衣室</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">每天都有女性带儿子进来，不止一个！</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">都是十多岁的！……”</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1.5px;white-space: normal;caret-color: rgb(255, 0, 0);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 542px !important;visibility: visible !important;border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;"></span></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span style="caret-color: red;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">之后，</span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span style="caret-color: red;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">#游泳馆更衣室每天都有女性带儿子进来# </span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span style="caret-color: red;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">的话题冲上了微博热搜。<br></span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;border-style: solid;width: 667px !important;visibility: visible !important;border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);border-width: 1px;"></span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span style="caret-color: red;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"><br></span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;letter-spacing: 0.544px;">评论区大部分网友</span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span style="caret-color: red;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">都非常谴责这种行为：</span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><br></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span style="caret-color: red;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">也有网友说，</span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;caret-color: red;font-size: 15px;">必须曝光游泳馆的名字，</span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;caret-color: red;font-size: 15px;">令其整改，制约顾客的行为：<br></span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">很多网友说，</span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">家长的教育很重要，</span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">性别意识要从小开始培养：</span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"><br></span></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="padding: 7px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(151, 152, 153);box-shadow: rgb(151, 152, 153) 2px 2px 5px;border-radius: 0px;width: 464px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"><br></span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);"><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">由于很多游泳馆并没有设置第三更衣室，</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);"><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">因此到了夏天，</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);"><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">这种尴尬场面屡屡发生。</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1.5px;white-space: normal;caret-color: rgb(255, 0, 0);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 677px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">一方面，女泳客觉得隐私受到了侵犯，</span><br></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">另一方面，</span><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">带娃的家长们也觉得委屈。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);"><br></span></strong></p><section style="font-size: 16px;"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: black;padding: 10px;box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 0.2em 0.2em 0.3em;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">一位带4岁儿子进女更衣室的母亲说：</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">“孩子爸爸没来，我一个人带孩子，我也不放心让他一个人去男更衣室……毕竟孩子太小，又是在游泳池这种地方，不敢让孩子脱离自己视线。”</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"></span></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">这也代表了那些带儿子进女浴室(女厕所）的母亲的心态，第一，</span><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">她们认为孩子还小，不懂事，还没有性别意识</span><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">，所以没关系。第二，出于安全考虑，孩子还小，单独把孩子放在外面或者单独让孩子进男浴室（男厕所），</span><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">脱离视线，放心不下</span><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">“以后去游泳，爸爸带着年幼的女儿是不能去的？妈妈带着年幼的儿子也是不能去了？”</span></p></section></section></section></section><p style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">心理咨询师建议</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">杭州学军中学心理辅导站站长、国家二级心理咨询师邱许超老师说：“孩子母亲带着10来岁的孩子进入女性更衣室的行为，以及这位母亲的话语，实在是让人大跌眼镜，这对这位孩子性观念的塑造是极为不利的。游泳馆、卫生间等场所类似事件时有发生，也反映出部分家长对于儿童性教育的关注、引导是漠视与缺位的。”</span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"></span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">“有研究表明，3-4岁时有42%-86%的男女儿童逐渐意识到‘男女有别’，并开始以男孩或女孩自居。”邱老师强调，<span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">“3-6岁是儿童性教育最好的时期。这时候，孩子们脑海中并没有不健康的想法，更多的是对性别探索的好奇，这时候进入公共场所，比如异性浴室、卫生间，可能会带给孩子不当的刺激与引导。”</span></span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><br></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">邱老师还强调，父母本身也要发挥榜样的作用，“我自己也是孩子母亲，能够理解妈妈们一人带娃时可能遭遇到的窘况，但在孩子逐步成长的过程中，换衣服、上厕所、分床睡等细节一定要注意做好。<span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">还有，现在二胎家庭很多，尤其是一儿一女的家庭，在两个孩子成长过程中父母也要关注性别差异，做好性别教育。”</span></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">其实，</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">这样的尴尬，</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">是可以避免的！</span></strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">1、条件允许的话，尽量让同性长辈带去</span></strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">如果条件允许，还是尽量让同性（爸爸、外公等）带去。如果妈妈一定要带，办法也总是有的。有网友建议，男孩子可以在家里先换好泳衣。自己还不会洗澡的，出来后先擦擦干，回家再好好洗。反正夏天外面也很热。</span></p><p><br></p><p><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">2、请游泳馆工作人员先照看一下</span></strong></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">还有人建议，可以请游泳馆男性工作人员帮忙带一下男孩子，和妈妈在更衣室出口会合。</span></p><p><br></p><p><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">3、多准备一些第三更衣室</span></strong></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">建议有条件的游泳馆弄一个“第三更衣室”，方便解决爸爸带小女孩或者妈妈带小男孩的问题。这种“第三更衣室”其实只要是一个可以洗澡的小单间就行。</span></p><p><br style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;"></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">上海《新闻晨报》报道，2015年，虹口游泳学校就开辟了一间专门的儿童更衣区和更衣室。其实设备也简单的。</span><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">只要在墙角挂一个帘子，就可以做出一个专门的儿童更衣区。</span><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">没有性别标示，帘内不分男女，先到先用。</span><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">还有一个2平方米左右的小盥洗室专门给爸爸带小女孩或者妈妈带小男孩的情况使用，</span><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">孩子可以在里面换衣服、洗澡和上厕所。</span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><br></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box !important;width: 454px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);"><br></span></strong></p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">老百姓的意识和日常管理也要跟进</span></strong></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">“就和我们常说的第三卫生间一样，（第三更衣室）这个问题，其实是每个游泳馆必须重视与做到的事情。”杭州游泳馆工作人员说，“另一方面，在管理尽量做到位的情况下，也需要孩子家长的理解与配合。”<br></span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">在推广第三更衣室的同时，也希望能更新大众的观念，</span><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">一方面孩子家长意识到性别差异，主动使用第三更衣室，另一方面其他的顾客不要占用第三更衣室。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">一座城市的文明程度，不在于拥有多少高楼大厦，</span><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">而在于让人感受到舒适的“温度”。公共场所拥有更多的“第三更衣室”，</span><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">是体现了城市社会服务的精细化与人性化，也是衡量城市人文关怀的“标尺”。</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;text-align: center;white-space: normal;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 543px !important;"></span></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">我们看到，在2017,2018年，<br></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">关于这个话题就曾在网上引发热议和关注。</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">如今在不少商场和公共空间，</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">母婴室和第三卫生间已经逐渐得到普及，</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">4年过去了，第三更衣室的落实，</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">还任重道远。</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;"><br></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">你曾遇到过类似的事情嘛？</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">有什么看法？在评论区说说</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);">期待看到大家，不同角度的发声</span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 15px;">来源：综合都市快报、中国新闻网、成都商报</span></p></div> 孩子大了，还是要注意还是接受不了这种
十几岁了 毕竟孩子都大了 还是需要注意下的
这也太扯了孩子都那么大了 标准的妈宝男成功养成记。
这样太不合适，侵犯別人隐私！
孩子大了，家长要特别注意
这样的家长，能培养出什么样的孩子
这个年纪了还是要避讳一下