7.19【晚8点红包】渭南的家长你认为孩子帮忙做家务，该不该给物质奖励？
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><ignore_js_op style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></ignore_js_op></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><img src="http://www.yewn.cn/data/attachment/forum/202107/18/140132bi88o5hw545co4zc.jpg"></p></section><section style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section align="center" style="list-style: none; 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cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: -webkit-center; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, STHeiTi, sans-serif;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(33, 33, 34); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">请在“天天领红包”奖励金里查看哦！</strong></span></strong></span></section><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><img src="http://www.yewn.cn/data/attachment/forum/202107/18/140136zsau6tax18lviu1z.jpg"></p></section><section data-role="paragraph" style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><img src="http://www.yewn.cn/data/attachment/forum/202107/18/140142pkkwz9hhs999vvkd.jpg"></p><p style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); box-sizing: border-box !important;">渭南的家长你认为孩子帮忙做家务该不该给物质奖励？</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.5px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><img src="https://gimg2.baidu.com/image_search/src=http%3A%2F%2Fcms-bucket.nosdn.127.net%2F2018%2F11%2F01%2Faf33cbc71199472d9e4f38b30332fc04.jpeg%3FimageView%26thumbnail%3D550x0&refer=http%3A%2F%2Fcms-bucket.nosdn.127.net&app=2002&size=f9999,10000&q=a80&n=0&g=0n&fmt=jpeg?sec=1629254995&t=af6993cf97900c1d8e765d408b3d8964"></p><p style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.5px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); font-size: 16px; text-align: left; font-family: Arial, SimSun, STHeiti; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong>小编认为：</strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(146, 208, 80);font-family: 微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1.5px;"><strong>孩子主动做家务是一个很棒的表现，可以适当给一些奖励，但是不应该拿物质奖励来引导孩子做家务。</strong></span></span></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(146, 208, 80);font-family: 微软雅黑;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1.5px;"><strong>也可以适当要求孩子做家务，再给予奖励，这样的意义是不一样的！</strong></span></span></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><section data-id="undefined" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="padding: 5px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><section style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; box-shadow: rgb(211, 211, 211) 0px 0px 6px; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229); border-radius: 20px;"><section style="padding-top: 2em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section data-width="100%" style="box-sizing: border-box; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; width: 100%; height: 1px; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229); overflow: hidden;"><br style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section data-width="100%" style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0.5em auto; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; width: 100%; height: 1px; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229); overflow: hidden;"><br style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section data-width="100%" style="box-sizing: border-box; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; width: 100%; height: 1px; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229); overflow: hidden;"><br style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section></section><section style="margin-top: -1.5em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section data-brushtype="text" style="padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 20px; display: inline-block; background: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">晚8点红包规则</strong></span></section></section><section style="padding: 2em 1em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="padding-top: 2em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; width: 28px; height: 28px; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229); border-radius: 100%;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 4px auto; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; width: 18px;"><span wx-style="display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 18px;display: block;" style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;box-sizing: border-box;display: block;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></span></section></section><section data-autoskip="1" style="margin-right: 2em; margin-left: 2em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一、福利时间</strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">晚20:00—00:00均可领取现金红包</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">二、参与方式</strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">晚20:00—00:00回复当天【晚8点红包】贴</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">即可</strong></span><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: red; box-sizing: border-box !important;">领取现金红包</strong><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; caret-color: red; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">（必须在手机客户端参与哦）</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">三、友情提示</strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">恶意灌水/答非所问 无效</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">未在规定时间内回复 无效</strong></span></p></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; width: 28px; height: 28px; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229); border-radius: 100%;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 4px auto; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; width: 18px;"><span wx-style="display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 18px;display: block;transform: rotate(180deg);" style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;box-sizing: border-box;display: block;transform: rotate(180deg);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong>注意！</strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong>一定要在评论过后的【晚8点】</strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong>来领取现金红包哦！</strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">转发至朋友圈可额外领取荣耀币</strong></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.5px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">（提示：红包已被隐藏，回复之后就能看到红包）</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.5px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.5px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;">**** Hidden Message *****</p><span style="font-size: 16px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><p style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-shadow: rgb(255, 255, 255) 2px 2px 10px; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">了解更多渭南新鲜事</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">参与活动拿红包，请速速入群</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><img src="http://www.yewn.cn/data/attachment/forum/202107/18/140145n1ldmyre637zk711.jpg"></p></section><p><br></p></div> 个人认为不还给。首先你得要有个正确的三观，孩子是家庭的一员，为家里做事情是天经地义的。一个家需要家庭成员的合作与付出，而不是用奖励来衡量，如果作为家长也需要这份奖励的话，试问谁来出这个奖励？本身这个问题就是毁三观的问题。不提倡我觉得可以适当给一些奖励，现在很多孩子都被惯的衣来伸手，饭来张口的，基本上很少会让做家务，如果孩子主动做家务，可以给一些奖励来提高孩子的积极性
我会给{:qqemoji62:}
毕竟才不到三岁的萌宝每天乐此不疲的帮我“干家务{:8_234:}”
适当给一点，娃奏啥劲大{:qqemoji21:}
适当的给些奖励，不一定非是物质上的
不要刻意去奖励，这样孩子会有依赖。可以适时鼓励性给点
适当的给予点奖励，让孩子感觉自己有信心有成就感是应该的
可以奖励一下
我觉得应该适当给些奖励，毕竟孩子的劳动需要鼓励和表扬，但是奖励会更好，孩子会更有积极性，也有利于孩子良好习惯的养成，哈哈，大人工作有绩效和额外奖励的心情也和小孩的奖励是一个道理。