第一期︱恋爱前，学学这几个说话小技巧！
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 314px !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></p><section data-role="paragraph" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>欢迎来到第一期的《红娘说》</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>谈对象，会“谈”才能有对象。</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“不会说话”的人简直太吃亏了，</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>而真正的沟通技巧，</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不是要你嘴甜似蜜，曲意逢迎，</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>而是平等自由交流的底层逻辑</span></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="103122" hm_fix="354:535" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 55px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;display: block;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; background-color: rgb(128, 100, 162); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>今天就给大家安利几个简单的小技巧！</span></p></section><section data-role="paragraph" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="103172" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-original-title="" title="" style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 60px; color: rgb(128, 100, 162); display: inline-block; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 72px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong>01</strong></span></section><section style='margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; height: 60px; width: 1px; background: rgb(128, 100, 162); overflow: hidden;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-brushtype="text" hm_fix="313:459" style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 35px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(128, 100, 162); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 32px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong>把主语“你”</strong></span></section><section data-brushtype="text" style='margin-top: -7px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 20px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(128, 100, 162); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 32px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong>改成“我”</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section><section data-role="paragraph" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></p></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 0px; transform: rotate(180deg);'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 14px solid rgb(157, 180, 194); height: 20px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 10px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 10px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='margin-top: -19px; margin-bottom: -19px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 12px solid rgb(254, 254, 254); height: 18px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 9px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 9px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section data-width="100%" style='margin-left: -1px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 100%; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 3px 3px 5px;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(95, 73, 122); font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>你</strong></span><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(38, 38, 38); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不能这样做。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="100440" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 1.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-brushtype="text" style='padding: 1em 1.5em; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background: rgb(178, 162, 199); border-radius: 20px 20px 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>（女生OS）你在教我做事？</section><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 15px solid rgb(178, 162, 199); border-right: 15px solid transparent; overflow: hidden;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section></section><section data-role="paragraph" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="85557" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 100px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 24px; border-width: 3px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); border-radius: 8px;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); clear: both; color: inherit;'><section data-width="6px" style='margin-bottom: -3px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); float: right; width: 6px; border-radius: 50%; box-shadow: rgb(117, 117, 117) 0px 0px 5px; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); background-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); overflow: hidden; height: 6px !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section data-width="6px" style='margin-bottom: -2px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); width: 6px; border-radius: 50%; box-shadow: rgb(117, 117, 117) 0px 0px 5px; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); background-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); overflow: hidden; height: 6px !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section style='padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;'><p hm_fix="370:488" style='margin-top: -93px; max-width: 100%; clear: none; min-height: 1em; text-align: right; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;color: inherit;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 54px !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></p><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>以“你”为开头的句子<br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>很容易带给别人压迫感</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>并引起对方的反感</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>学会用“我”字开头会完全不一样:</span></p></section></section><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); clear: both; color: inherit;'><section data-width="6px" style='margin-bottom: -3px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); float: right; width: 6px; border-radius: 50%; box-shadow: rgb(117, 117, 117) 0px 0px 5px; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); background-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); height: 6px !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 0px; transform: rotate(180deg);'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 14px solid rgb(157, 180, 194); height: 20px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 10px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 10px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='margin-top: -19px; margin-bottom: -19px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 12px solid rgb(254, 254, 254); height: 18px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 9px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 9px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section data-width="100%" style='margin-left: -1px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 100%; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 3px 3px 5px;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(95, 73, 122); font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我</strong></span><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(38, 38, 38); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>建议你可以这样做。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="100440" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 1.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-brushtype="text" style='padding: 1em 1.5em; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background: rgb(178, 162, 199); border-radius: 20px 20px 0px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>嗯，好像挺有道理的。</section><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 15px solid rgb(178, 162, 199); border-right: 15px solid transparent; overflow: hidden;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section></section><section data-role="paragraph" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="103172" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-original-title="" title="" style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 60px; color: rgb(128, 100, 162); display: inline-block; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 72px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong>02</strong></span></section><section style='margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; height: 60px; width: 1px; background: rgb(128, 100, 162); overflow: hidden;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-brushtype="text" hm_fix="313:459" style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 35px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(128, 100, 162); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 32px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong>把“但是”</strong></span></section><section data-brushtype="text" style='margin-top: -7px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 20px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(128, 100, 162); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 32px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong>改成“而且”</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section><section data-role="paragraph" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></p></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="100440" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 1.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='padding: 1em 1.5em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background: rgb(178, 162, 199); border-radius: 20px 20px 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我喜欢你，<span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>但是</strong></span><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我不喜欢抽烟的你。</span></p><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 15px solid rgb(178, 162, 199); border-right: 15px solid transparent; overflow: hidden;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 0px; transform: rotate(180deg);'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 14px solid rgb(157, 180, 194); height: 20px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 10px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 10px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='margin-top: -19px; margin-bottom: -19px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 12px solid rgb(254, 254, 254); height: 18px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 9px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 9px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section data-width="100%" style='margin-left: -1px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 100%; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 3px 3px 5px;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(38, 38, 38); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>（男生OS）真可惜地球不是围着你旋转。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="85557" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 100px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 24px; border-width: 3px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); border-radius: 8px;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); clear: both; color: inherit;'><section data-width="6px" style='margin-bottom: -3px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); float: right; width: 6px; border-radius: 50%; box-shadow: rgb(117, 117, 117) 0px 0px 5px; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); background-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); overflow: hidden; height: 6px !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section data-width="6px" style='margin-bottom: -2px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); width: 6px; border-radius: 50%; box-shadow: rgb(117, 117, 117) 0px 0px 5px; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); background-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); overflow: hidden; height: 6px !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section style='padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;'><p hm_fix="370:488" style='margin-top: -93px; max-width: 100%; clear: none; min-height: 1em; text-align: right; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;color: inherit;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 54px !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></p><section style='padding-top: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“但是”传达出一种“有条件的好感”</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>效果往往适得其反</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>如果把“但是”改成“而且”就不一样了:</span></p></section></section><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); clear: both; color: inherit;'><section data-width="6px" style='margin-bottom: -3px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); float: right; width: 6px; border-radius: 50%; box-shadow: rgb(117, 117, 117) 0px 0px 5px; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); background-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); height: 6px !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="100440" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 1.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='padding: 1em 1.5em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background: rgb(178, 162, 199); border-radius: 20px 20px 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我喜欢你，<span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>而且</strong></span><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我更喜欢不抽烟的你。</span></p><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 15px solid rgb(178, 162, 199); border-right: 15px solid transparent; overflow: hidden;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 0px; transform: rotate(180deg);'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 14px solid rgb(157, 180, 194); height: 20px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 10px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 10px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='margin-top: -19px; margin-bottom: -19px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 12px solid rgb(254, 254, 254); height: 18px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 9px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 9px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section data-width="100%" style='margin-left: -1px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 100%; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 3px 3px 5px;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(38, 38, 38); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>哈哈哈哈哈，我一定努力。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="103172" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-original-title="" title="" style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 60px; color: rgb(128, 100, 162); display: inline-block; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 72px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong>03</strong></span></section><section style='margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; height: 60px; width: 1px; background: rgb(128, 100, 162); overflow: hidden;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-brushtype="text" hm_fix="313:459" style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 35px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(128, 100, 162); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 32px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong>把“应该”</strong></span></section><section data-brushtype="text" style='margin-top: -7px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 20px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(128, 100, 162); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 32px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong>改成“可以”</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 0px; transform: rotate(180deg);'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 14px solid rgb(157, 180, 194); height: 20px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 10px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 10px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='margin-top: -19px; margin-bottom: -19px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 12px solid rgb(254, 254, 254); height: 18px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 9px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 9px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section data-width="100%" style='margin-left: -1px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 100%; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 3px 3px 5px;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(38, 38, 38); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>你真的</span><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(95, 73, 122); font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>应该</strong></span><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(38, 38, 38); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>选择那家烤肉餐厅。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="100440" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 1.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-brushtype="text" style='padding: 1em 1.5em; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background: rgb(178, 162, 199); border-radius: 20px 20px 0px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>是你自己想吃烤肉吧。</section><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 15px solid rgb(178, 162, 199); border-right: 15px solid transparent; overflow: hidden;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="85557" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 100px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 24px; border-width: 3px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); border-radius: 8px;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); clear: both; color: inherit;'><section data-width="6px" style='margin-bottom: -3px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); float: right; width: 6px; border-radius: 50%; box-shadow: rgb(117, 117, 117) 0px 0px 5px; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); background-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); overflow: hidden; height: 6px !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section data-width="6px" style='margin-bottom: -2px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); width: 6px; border-radius: 50%; box-shadow: rgb(117, 117, 117) 0px 0px 5px; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); background-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); overflow: hidden; height: 6px !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section style='padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;'><p hm_fix="370:488" style='margin-top: -93px; max-width: 100%; clear: none; min-height: 1em; text-align: right; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;color: inherit;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 54px !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></p><section style='padding-top: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>“应该” 这两个字带有命令的语气，</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>容易引人不适:</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>改成建议性质的“可以” 等词语，</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>效果会好很多</span></p></section></section><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); clear: both; color: inherit;'><section data-width="6px" style='margin-bottom: -3px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); float: right; width: 6px; border-radius: 50%; box-shadow: rgb(117, 117, 117) 0px 0px 5px; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); background-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); height: 6px !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 0px; transform: rotate(180deg);'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 14px solid rgb(157, 180, 194); height: 20px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 10px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 10px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='margin-top: -19px; margin-bottom: -19px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 12px solid rgb(254, 254, 254); height: 18px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 9px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 9px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section data-width="100%" style='margin-left: -1px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 100%; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 3px 3px 5px;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(38, 38, 38); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>那家烤肉我吃过，真心推荐，我觉得你也</span><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(95, 73, 122); font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>可以</strong></span><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(38, 38, 38); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>尝试一下。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="100440" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 1.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-brushtype="text" style='padding: 1em 1.5em; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background: rgb(178, 162, 199); border-radius: 20px 20px 0px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>真的吗？我也好久没吃烤肉了呢。</section><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 15px solid rgb(178, 162, 199); border-right: 15px solid transparent; overflow: hidden;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section></section><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="103172" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-original-title="" title="" style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 60px; color: rgb(128, 100, 162); display: inline-block; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 72px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong>04</strong></span></section><section style='margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; height: 60px; width: 1px; background: rgb(128, 100, 162); overflow: hidden;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-brushtype="text" hm_fix="313:459" style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 35px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(128, 100, 162); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 32px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong>不要用“绝对否定”的词语</strong></span></section></section></section></section></section><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="100440" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 1.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='padding: 1em 1.5em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background: rgb(178, 162, 199); border-radius: 20px 20px 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>你<span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>从来</strong></span><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>没有爱过我。</span></p><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 15px solid rgb(178, 162, 199); border-right: 15px solid transparent; overflow: hidden;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 0px; transform: rotate(180deg);'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 14px solid rgb(157, 180, 194); height: 20px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 10px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 10px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='margin-top: -19px; margin-bottom: -19px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 12px solid rgb(254, 254, 254); height: 18px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 9px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 9px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section data-width="100%" style='margin-left: -1px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 100%; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 3px 3px 5px;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(38, 38, 38); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>你真的这么想的吗？</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="100440" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 1.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='padding: 1em 1.5em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background: rgb(178, 162, 199); border-radius: 20px 20px 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>你为什么<span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>从来</strong></span><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>不肯主动付出呢？</span></p><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 15px solid rgb(178, 162, 199); border-right: 15px solid transparent; overflow: hidden;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 0px; transform: rotate(180deg);'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 14px solid rgb(157, 180, 194); height: 20px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 10px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 10px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='margin-top: -19px; margin-bottom: -19px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 12px solid rgb(254, 254, 254); height: 18px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 9px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 9px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section data-width="100%" style='margin-left: -1px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 100%; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 3px 3px 5px;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(38, 38, 38); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我没有吗？</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="100440" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 1.5em; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 1em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='padding: 1em 1.5em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); background: rgb(178, 162, 199); border-radius: 20px 20px 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>我<span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>绝不会</strong></span><span style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>再相信你了。</span></p><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 15px solid rgb(178, 162, 199); border-right: 15px solid transparent; overflow: hidden;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="102672" style='max-width: 100%; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; display: flex; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section><section style='padding-left: 12px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: top; flex: 0 0 50%;'><section style='max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 0px; transform: rotate(180deg);'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 14px solid rgb(157, 180, 194); height: 20px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 10px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 10px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section style='margin-top: -19px; margin-bottom: -19px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 0px; border-left: 12px solid rgb(254, 254, 254); height: 18px; overflow: hidden; border-top: 9px solid transparent !important; border-bottom: 9px solid transparent !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section data-width="100%" style='margin-left: -1px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 100%; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(157, 180, 194); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 3px 3px 5px;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: rgb(38, 38, 38); box-sizing: border-box !important;'>随便你怎么想吧，我解释也没用。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="85557" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin-top: 100px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 24px; border-width: 3px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); border-radius: 8px;'><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); clear: both; color: inherit;'><section data-width="6px" style='margin-bottom: -3px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); float: right; width: 6px; border-radius: 50%; box-shadow: rgb(117, 117, 117) 0px 0px 5px; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); background-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); overflow: hidden; height: 6px !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section data-width="6px" style='margin-bottom: -2px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); width: 6px; border-radius: 50%; box-shadow: rgb(117, 117, 117) 0px 0px 5px; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); background-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); overflow: hidden; height: 6px !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section style='padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit;'><p hm_fix="370:488" style='margin-top: -93px; max-width: 100%; clear: none; min-height: 1em; text-align: right; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;color: inherit;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 54px !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></p><section style='padding-top: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>人在情绪的驱使下，</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>为了加重语气，</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>会对对方或彼此的感情进行全盘否定</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>原非本意，</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>却容易给双方造成完全不必要的伤害</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>使感情进人无法挽回的境地</span></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>所以，应尽可能地避免使用这种沟通方式</span></p></section></section><section style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); clear: both; color: inherit;'><section data-width="6px" style='margin-bottom: -3px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(254, 254, 254); float: right; width: 6px; border-radius: 50%; box-shadow: rgb(117, 117, 117) 0px 0px 5px; border-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); background-color: rgb(178, 162, 199); height: 6px !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section><section data-role="paragraph" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="93011" data-color="#fac08f" data-custom="#fac08f" style='max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 16px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section style='max-width: 100%; text-align: center; display: inline-block; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-brushtype="text" style='padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(73, 73, 73);'><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; font-size: 24px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><strong hm_fix="290:362" style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>最后。</strong></span></p></section><section style='margin-top: -10px; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(128, 100, 162); height: 8px; color: rgb(132, 64, 6); overflow: hidden; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section><p style='max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; line-height: 2em; letter-spacing: 1.75px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='max-width: 100%; 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有红娘牵线就好
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