11.24【晚8点红包】婚姻真的要门当户对才能幸福吗?
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max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">婚姻真的要门当户对才能幸福吗？</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font color="#9acd32" style="" face="微软雅黑" size="4">小编先来：</font></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font color="#9acd32" face="微软雅黑" size="3">每个人的想法不同，这个不好做评价，但是婚后的幸福指数还是靠家庭的情况来维持...</font></p><section data-id="undefined" style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section data-width="100%" style="box-sizing: border-box; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; width: 100%;"><section style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; width: 4em; display: inline-block;"><span wx-style="" style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: inherit;display: block;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></span></section></section></section></section><section data-id="undefined" style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; 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max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;display: inline-block;vertical-align: inherit;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></span></p></section><section data-role="paragraph"><p style="vertical-align:inherit;"><br></p></section><p><br></p></div><p></p> 我觉得是要门当户对的，我虽然目前没结婚，但是也谈了几个不同条件的，因为生活的差异，有些物品是对方没有接触过的，有些场合是从来没想过会面对的，有些生活方式是对方不能接受的，就因为门不当户不对的，所以导致思想认识不一致，三观不合，最终无法再一起。婚姻确实是要门当户对的，不同的阶层生活环境、习惯，朋友圈，消费习惯等等很多方面都有不同之处，这些都是双方在一起共同生活时要面对的。一般家庭的孩子尽可能和一般家庭的孩子在一起，两人都能对上眼，有共同话题，三观一致就行。特殊情况也有，占的比较非常之少。老百姓谈论某一件事时讲的是一般情况，最能让绝大多数老百姓认可和接受。
我觉得最好是门当户对的。门当户对的话才有共同语言。就没有谁瞧不起谁的。除非遇到了真正的爱情。但这都是少数。我身边的人基本上都是门当户对的。而且过得很幸福。不是门当户对的，就会存在经济思想三观不同。 这样是很难生活下去的。就算短时间能相处久了也会闹矛盾。
在我看来，最好是门当户对。门当户对的婚姻至少不会受欺负。应该是平起平坐的。一般的话这样的家庭都会得到对方的重视。婚后应该会很幸福。如果家庭之间存在着很大的差异。那可能会不是绝对的幸福。因为家庭情况存在着巨大差异，那就会激发出各种矛盾。
门当户对的两个家庭，社会地位和经济状况不相上下，在这样的家庭长大的孩子三观也会相近，婚后可以避免不少的家庭矛盾，婚姻中两个人吵闹，打架，甚至离婚，无非就是三观不合。
门当户对最好，这样两个家庭的社会地位和经济状况不相上下。生活中也不存在谁歧视谁。谁高攀谁， 价值观，生活观也基本相同。减少矛盾。
至少在生活观念和人生理念上要门当户对
一般情况是这样，个例除外。 不是绝对的，但是尽量门当户对。
这个话题我不做过多评论，但是能当户对确实很重要
最好能门当户对，当然主要在于两个娃。
这样是最好的，
门当户对最好，现实社会是有钱的总也看不起没钱的，哪怕差距很小。哪怕只是工作上的差距，别说什么分工不同的那些场面话，现实太可怕。