12.20【晚8点红包】渭南人，你觉得有没有必要跟对象一起首付买房子？
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box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">渭南人，你觉得有没有必要跟对象一起首付买房子？</strong></span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></strong></span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">小编先来：</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font color="#92d050" face="微软雅黑"><span style="font-size: 16px;">一起首付以我的情况可能不太现实，如果有需要的话，可以一起还月供吧...但是这个都是以后的事情了，毕竟这个问题是有点扎心了...</span></font></p><section data-id="undefined" style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; 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text-align: center; font-size: 14px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一、福利时间</strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">晚20:00—00:00均可领取现金红包</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">二、参与方式</strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">晚20:00—00:00回复当天【晚8点红包】贴</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">即可</strong></span><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; caret-color: red; box-sizing: border-box !important;">领取现金红包</strong><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; caret-color: red; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">（必须在手机客户端参与哦）</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(146, 208, 80); text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="list-style: none; 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max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;display: inline-block;vertical-align: inherit;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></span></p></section><section data-role="paragraph"><p style="vertical-align:inherit;"><br></p></section><p><br></p></div><p></p> 无所谓呀，我和我媳妇就是我自己付首付，媳妇和我一块掏的装修费，可能对于女生来说顾虑比较多吧，可以理解，毕竟谁的钱也不是大风刮来的，还是慎重的好对象？还是算了吧！这样也是婚前财产{:qqemoji21:}等成了两口子，一起买房，一起还房贷，一起照看孩子，虽然有时会觉得非常艰辛，但两个人共同经历过来，等老了的那一天回想起来，也是一种甜蜜{:qqemoji104:}
刚开始我就和老公一起首付买房子。我们都是出来一起工作了，然后首付买的房子。我觉得这个应该看个人吧。不能一概而论。自己觉得值得信任，就可以一起买，不值得信任，那就不要一起。
我觉得我结婚之前我有能力我肯定自己买房子。一个女孩子结婚之前自己买房子是一个安全感。哪怕以后结婚过后吵架都有地方去。两个人一起买房，那得有感情多好。不然的话婚后也容易吵架。
最近知乎上有个问题引起了很多适龄男女的关注，那就是问一个女人是否愿意跟男朋友一起凑首付贷款买房。众所周知，这几年来经过媒体的大肆渲染，把买房的要求都推到丈母娘身上，好像买房就是为了给女朋友住，自己不用住一样。那么女方在买房这件事上，真的愿意跟男的一起凑首付贷款买房吗？
还是不要吧，毕竟现在离婚率太高了。就算真的要一起买房，那也要把产权和房产证加上名字，毕竟两个人都出钱了，如果他家里不同意，那就让他们自己付，也不要傻不兮兮的说什么装修你来！我见过一奇葩，他买房，媳妇装修，结果装修的时候给要求这个要求那个，反正就是啥贵弄啥，最后离婚的时候，媳妇不要房子，光把她弄的装修东西卸了，卸完以后就是个毛呸房{:qqemoji21:}
如果男朋友和他家里人有这个能力，建议还是不要一起首付了。
你的钱可以自己留着，或则给父母一些，结婚后自己手里有钱，也会有底气些，不用什么都看婆家的眼色。
如果他们家确实没有能力，你也决定是会和男朋友结婚，那么也可以一起首付买房，这样你们的家是你们一起打拼的，那样的感觉还是不错的。
必须慎重考虑到，假如要一起付首付得话，最好是签订协议明确清晰分别所占份额，由于男女朋友并并不是夫妻关系，假如发生婚姻破裂，有协议是最好是的。需要慎重考虑的是，如果一起支付首付的话，最好签约确定各自的份额。男女朋友不是夫妻关系，感情破裂的话，最好有合同。
一定不要合伙买哦。
好的时候怎么都好，命都给你，不好的时候给对方自己的命，对方不仅不要还要踹两脚。
自己买自己的。在一起双方都有资产，分手也都有窝，都有尊严。
不然你出二百万我出一百万。分手的时候是卖房还是给钱？房子升职或者贬值怎么算？不可能卖房也没有钱给对方怎么办？
麻烦三万六千个。
如果两个人彼此相爱而且都决定以后的日子携手同行，那么一方付首付有困难时，另外一方也分担些是没有问题的。跟不跟对象一起付首付要看彼此之间的感情，各自的经济状况等等因素，不好一概而乱。
无所谓呀，我和我媳妇就是我自己付首付，媳妇和我一块掏的装修费，可能对于女生来说顾虑比较多吧，可以理解，毕竟谁的钱也不是大风刮来的，还是慎重的好
自己哪怕买个小的公寓也别共同努力赚钱买房了，避免不必要的麻烦！即使结婚了还有不确定因素呢！最起码房子不会背叛不会离开自己！始终如一是自己的！
我觉得很有必要，目前啃老族在大多数，多替父母考虑，不要把父母逼的太狠，让他们留些养老钱。一起买房，一起创业，一起同甘共苦，这才能体会幸福来之不易。撸起袖子加油干，幸福是一起奋斗出来的！愿天下有情人终成眷属，都有属于自己的房子，自己的家。
如果你确定结婚就行
最好还是不要
两个人想好好过我想没有什么应该不应该的。
买可以但产权一定要明确
买可以但产权一定要明确
只要感情好，共同首付买房子没什么不好的。
实际情况实际决定
如果本着结婚过日子，就应该共患难