2.11【晚8点红包】@耀友们，你曾因不懂拒绝而吃过哪些亏？一起来说说吧！
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor"><section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor"><section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor"><section style='margin-bottom: unset;'><section label="edit by 135editor"><section style='margin-bottom: unset;'><section label="edit by 135editor"><section label="edit by 135editor"><section label="edit by 135editor"><section label="edit by 135editor"><p style='text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;'><span wx-style='' style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing:border-box;vertical-align: inherit;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;display: inline-block;width: 767px;overflow-wrap: break-word;'></span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;'><br></p><p style='text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; letter-spacing: 2px; box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; outline: 0px; font-size: 18px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; box-sizing: border-box;'>注意！</span></strong></span></p><section align="center" style='color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; text-align: center; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, STHeiTi, sans-serif;'><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; color: rgb(33, 33, 34); letter-spacing: 2px; box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";'>晚8点红包到账记录</span></strong></span></p></section><section align="center" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; text-align: center; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, STHeiTi, sans-serif;'><p style='color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; color: rgb(33, 33, 34); letter-spacing: 2px; box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";'>请在“天天领红包”奖励金里查看哦！</span></strong></span></p><p style='color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;'><br></p><p style='color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;'><span wx-style='' style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing:border-box;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;display: inline-block;vertical-align: inherit;width: 767px;overflow-wrap: break-word;'></span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; list-style: none; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(227, 108, 9) 1px 1px 1px; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2.5px; box-sizing: border-box;'>@耀友们</span></p><p style='color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; list-style: none; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(227, 108, 9) 1px 1px 1px; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2.5px; box-sizing: border-box;'>你曾经因为不懂拒绝吃过那些亏？</span></p><p style='color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; list-style: none; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); text-shadow: rgb(227, 108, 9) 1px 1px 1px; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2.5px; box-sizing: border-box;'>一起来说说</span></p></section><p style='text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;'><span wx-style='' style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing:border-box;vertical-align: inherit;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;display: inline-block;width: 578px;overflow-wrap: break-word;height: 333px;'></span></span></p><p style='text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;'><br></p><p style='text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'>小编先来：</strong></span></p><p style='text-align: center; font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 0, 0);font-size: 16px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";'></span><span style='font-size: 16px;caret-color: red;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: left;text-indent: 36.9067px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";'>曾经不懂拒绝借钱给同学，</span></p><p style='text-align: center; font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><span style='font-size: 16px;caret-color: red;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: left;text-indent: 36.9067px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";'>最后一分没要回来。</span></p><p style='text-align: center; font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><span style='font-size: 16px;caret-color: red;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: left;text-indent: 36.9067px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";'>这个亏，</span></p><p style='text-align: center; font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><span style='font-size: 16px;caret-color: red;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: left;text-indent: 36.9067px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";'>至今记忆犹新，</span></p><p style='text-align: center; font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><span style='font-size: 16px;caret-color: red;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: left;text-indent: 36.9067px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";'>那时候刚入社会十六七岁的年纪，</span></p><p style='text-align: center; font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><span style='font-size: 16px;caret-color: red;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: left;text-indent: 36.9067px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";'>把自己攒了好久的钱都借给她了，</span></p><p style='text-align: center; font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><span style='font-size: 16px;caret-color: red;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: left;text-indent: 36.9067px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";'>对于刚毕业开始工作的我来说一万块可是巨款。。。</span></p><section data-id="undefined" style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><section style='padding: 5px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);'><section style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; box-shadow: rgb(211, 211, 211) 0px 0px 6px; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229); border-radius: 20px;'><section style='padding-top: 2em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;'><section data-width="100%" style='box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0.5em auto; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; width: 755px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229); overflow: hidden;'><br style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'></section><section data-width="100%" style='box-sizing: border-box; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; width: 755px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229); overflow: hidden;'><br style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'></section></section><section style='margin-top: -1.5em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; text-align: center;'><section data-brushtype="text" style='padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 20px; display: inline-block; background: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'>晚8点红包规则</strong></span></section></section><section style='padding: 2em 1em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;'><section style='padding-top: 2em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;'><section style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center;'><section style='box-sizing: border-box; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; width: 28px; height: 28px; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229); border-radius: 100%;'><section style='box-sizing: border-box; margin: 4px auto; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; width: 18px; text-align: center;'><span wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;display: block;width: 100%;visibility: visible ;' style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing:border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;display: inline-block;vertical-align: inherit;width: 18px;'></span></span></section></section><section style='margin-right: 2em; margin-left: 2em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; text-align: center; font-size: 14px;'><p style='text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;'>一、福利时间</span></strong></span></p><p style='text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'>晚20:00—00:00均可领取现金红包</strong></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;'><br></p><p style='text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;'>二、参与方式</span></strong></span></p><p style='text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'>晚20:00—00:00回复当天【晚8点红包】贴</strong></span></p><p style='text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'>即可</strong></span><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; caret-color: red; box-sizing: border-box;'>领取现金红包</strong><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; caret-color: red; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;'>（必须在手机客户端参与哦）</strong></p><p style='text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;'><br></p><p style='text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;'>三、友情提示</span></strong></span></p><p style='text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'>恶意灌水/答非所问 无效</strong></span></p><p style='text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'>未在规定时间内回复 无效</strong></span></p></section><section style='box-sizing: border-box; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; width: 28px; height: 28px; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229); border-radius: 100%;'><section style='box-sizing: border-box; margin: 4px auto; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; width: 18px; text-align: center;'><span wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;display: block;width: 100%;transform: rotate(180deg);visibility: visible ;' style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing:border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;display: inline-block;vertical-align: inherit;width: 18px;'></span></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style='text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><br></p><p style='text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;'><strong style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;'><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";'><strong>注意！</strong></span></strong></span></p><p style='text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box; 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其次，不会拒绝不仅会吃亏，还会带来很多麻烦。我们小组的一位同事也是一个不会拒绝人的人，从来不会对别人说不，因为这个原因，我们小组比别人多做了很多事情，因为这位同事不会拒绝人，所以领导和别的小组就会把一些不该我们做的事情交代给他，他又不拒绝，然后只能整个小组一起扛了。
更关键的是这位同事从来不跟组内其他人员商量，就接了很多活，哪怕是接了活之后也还不跟同事商量，就自己敷衍了事，但是在别人眼里这是我们整个小组一起做的活，这让我们小组受了很多批评，后来只能帮他一起扛这些不是我们小组分内之事的活了。其实这种工作上面的事情都是分工和职责明确的，在这种事情上面应该勇敢地说”不“，不然不仅给自己找了很多事情，还给周围人带来了麻烦。 朋友借钱没有拒绝、后来几年不还。为此朋友成了陌生人 曾经不懂，在西安转让的店铺，让人给框了，不过也因为经历，得到了经验 正像小编说的，生活中难免会遇到这样的情况，亲人、朋友、老乡、同事有时会向你要求一些事情，而这些要求有的根本就不合理，有的超过了你的能力范围，总而言之，你的内心是不情愿的。但是，却担心别人会因此而不高兴，甚至会影响到日后双方的交往，无奈只好硬着头皮应承。然而，事后自己却会因此沮丧烦恼，难受一阵子，想想何苦为难自己呀，学会拒绝也是一门技术{:14_545:}
不要乱借钱，好借出去难要回。 唉，说多了都是泪 说多了都是泪 这个话题可以聊
“不懂拒绝吃的亏”
刚参加工作，同学跑到我单位上借钱，我身上当时没钱，还是从同事手上临时找些钱借给同学，因为自己太善良，太心软，担心同学遇到难题解不开，能帮忙就帮同学过过难关。
最后结果是：同学根本就不提还钱的事，当我遇到难题时，问同学，同学说他一分钱都没有。
唉！说多了都是泪呀！我就是不懂得拒绝我媳妇！估计这辈亏是吃到老了！