4.13【晚八点红包】@渭南人，孩子“随母姓”成流行趋势，你能接受吗？如何看待？
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p style='margin-bottom: 0em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span wx-style='' style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;display: inline;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 2px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; outline: 0px; font-size: 18px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-weight: 700; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>注意！</span></p><section align="center" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); text-align: center; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, STHeiTi, sans-serif;'><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(33, 33, 34); letter-spacing: 2px; font-weight: 700; font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>晚8点红包到账记录</span></p></section><section align="center" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; text-align: center; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, STHeiTi, sans-serif;'><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(33, 33, 34); letter-spacing: 2px; font-weight: 700; font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>请在“天天领红包”奖励金里查看哦！</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span wx-style='' style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;vertical-align: inherit;display: inline;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; outline: 0px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 41, 65);font-size: 15px;font-weight: 700;'>@渭南人</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; outline: 0px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 41, 65);font-size: 15px;font-weight: 700;'>孩子“随母姓”成流行趋势</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; outline: 0px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 41, 65);font-size: 15px;font-weight: 700;'>你能接受吗</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; outline: 0px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 41, 65);font-size: 15px;font-weight: 700;'>如何看待</span></p><p><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 578px;height: 341px;'></span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p></section><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-weight: 700; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>小编先来：</span></p><p data-pid="sQHggjqc" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>能接受<br></p><p data-pid="sQHggjqc" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>现在已经开放三胎了</p><p data-pid="sQHggjqc" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>如果妈妈的姓很好听</p><p data-pid="sQHggjqc" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>让一个孩子随母姓也没啥</p><p data-pid="sQHggjqc" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>就看爸爸同不同意</p><p data-pid="TIxKkNPy" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br></p><section data-id="undefined" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em;'><section data-width="100%" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em; width: 577.826px;'><section style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em;'><section style='list-style: none; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; width: 4em; display: inline-block; max-width: 4em !important;'><span wx-style='' style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;overflow-wrap: break-word;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: inherit;display: inline;'></span></span></section><section style='list-style: none; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; width: 4em; display: inline-block; max-width: 4em !important;'><br style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section></section></section><section data-id="undefined" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'><section style='padding: 5px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);'><section style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; box-shadow: rgb(211, 211, 211) 0px 0px 6px; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229); border-radius: 20px;'><section style='padding-top: 2em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;'><section data-width="100%" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; width: 565.842px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229); overflow: hidden;'><br data-filtered="filtered" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section data-width="100%" style='margin: 0.5em auto; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; width: 565.842px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229); overflow: hidden;'><br data-filtered="filtered" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section><section data-width="100%" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; width: 565.842px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229); overflow: hidden;'><br data-filtered="filtered" style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></section></section><section style='margin-top: -1.5em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; text-align: center;'><section data-brushtype="text" style='padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 20px; display: inline-block; background: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0); list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-weight: 700; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>晚8点红包规则</span></section></section><section style='padding: 2em 1em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;'><section style='padding-top: 2em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;'><section style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center;'><section style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; width: 28px; height: 28px; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229); border-radius: 100%;'><section style='margin: 4px auto; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; width: 18px; text-align: center;'><span wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;display: block;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;' style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;overflow-wrap: break-word;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: inherit;display: inline;'></span></span></section></section><section data-autoskip="1" style='margin-right: 2em; margin-left: 2em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; text-align: center; font-size: 14px;'><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: 700; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; font-size: 15px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一、福利时间</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='font-size: 15px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-weight: 700; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>晚20:00—00:00均可领取现金红包</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: justify; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: 700; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; font-size: 15px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>二、参与方式</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='font-size: 15px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-weight: 700; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>晚20:00—00:00回复当天【晚8点红包】贴</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='font-size: 15px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-weight: 700; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>即可</span><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-weight: 700; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; caret-color: red; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>领取现金红包</span><span style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-weight: 700; outline: 0px; caret-color: red; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>（必须在手机客户端参与哦）</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: justify; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: 700; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; font-size: 15px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>三、友情提示</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='font-size: 15px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-weight: 700; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>恶意灌水/答非所问 无效</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='font-size: 15px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; font-weight: 700; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>未在规定时间内回复 无效</span></p></section><section style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; width: 28px; height: 28px; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229); border-radius: 100%;'><section style='margin: 4px auto; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; width: 18px; text-align: center;'><span wx-style='display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;display: block;width: 100%;transform: rotate(180deg);visibility: visible !important;' style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;overflow-wrap: break-word;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: inherit;display: inline;'></span></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><br style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: 700; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>注意！</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: 700; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一定要在评论过后的【晚8点】</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: 700; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>来领取现金红包哦！</span></p><p style='list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; font-weight: 700; list-style: none; 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孩子随母性已经成一种流行趋势，有什么不能接受的。现在很多家庭都是独生子女，如果他们结婚有两个小孩，一般都是一个随母性，一个随父姓。中国几千年的老传统也应该改改了。 姓只是个代号，血脉变不了 有什么不能接受的，都是自己孩子 作为父亲来讲，不愿意，世界怎么变化？目前仍然是男权社会，就是放开三胎政策了，哪个孩子随母姓？家里三个孩子，两个都随父姓，另一个随母姓的孩子心里不嘀咕？三个孩子一起到爷爷奶奶及外公外婆家，会不会区别对待？长期下来，对那个孩子心理有什么影响？这是一个严肃的问题。随便说一下，要想解决这个问题也很简单，孩子父母尽量同姓结合，这样就没有随父随母姓的问题了，哈哈{:14_538:}