8.11【晚8点红包】你觉得有必要跟同事处好关系成为朋友吗? 为什么?
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-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; text-align: center; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, STHeiTi, sans-serif;"><p style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; color: rgb(33, 33, 34); letter-spacing: 2px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";">晚8点红包到账记录</span></strong></span></p></section><section align="center" style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; text-align: center; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, STHeiTi, sans-serif;"><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; color: rgb(33, 33, 34); letter-spacing: 2px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";">请在“天天领红包”奖励金里查看哦!</span></strong></span></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;"><br></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;"><span wx-style="" style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;display: inline-block;vertical-align: inherit;width: 767px;overflow-wrap: break-word;box-sizing:border-box;"></span></span></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; list-style: none; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-shadow: rgb(227, 108, 9) 1px 1px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 2.5px;">@耀友们,</span></p><p style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; outline: 0px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font face="Helvetica" size="4" style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 0pt; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font color="#ff0000" style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">你觉得有必要跟同事处好关系成为朋友吗?</font></span></font></p><p style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; outline: 0px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font face="Helvetica" size="4" style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 0pt; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font color="#ff0000" style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">为什么?</font></span></font></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; list-style: none; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-shadow: rgb(227, 108, 9) 1px 1px 1px; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 2.5px;"><br></span></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; list-style: none; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); max-width: 100%; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; margin-bottom: 0em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">小编先来:</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="3" style="" face="微软雅黑" color="#ff0000">我觉得是有必要的</font></span></p><p style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="3" face="微软雅黑" color="#ff0000">人本来就是群居生活的</font></span></p><p style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="3" face="微软雅黑" color="#ff0000">上班也意味着一天的大部分时间都是跟同事在一起的</font></span></p><p style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="3" style="" face="微软雅黑" color="#ff0000">这种情况下自然是有必要和同事处好关系的</font></span></p><p style="text-align: center; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; line-height: 1.75em; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><section style="padding: 5px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><section style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; box-shadow: rgb(211, 211, 211) 0px 0px 6px; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229); border-radius: 20px;"><section style="padding-top: 2em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;"><section data-width="100%" style="margin: 0.5em auto; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; width: 755px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229); overflow: hidden; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section data-width="100%" style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; width: 755px; height: 1px; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(229, 229, 229); overflow: hidden; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section><section style="margin-top: -1.5em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; text-align: center;"><section data-brushtype="text" style="padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 20px; display: inline-block; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">晚8点红包规则</strong></span></section></section><section style="padding: 2em 1em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;"><section style="padding-top: 2em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;"><section style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; display: flex; justify-content: center; align-items: center;"><section style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; width: 28px; height: 28px; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229); border-radius: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: 4px auto; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; width: 18px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;"><span wx-style="display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;display: block;width: 100%;visibility: visible ;" style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;overflow-wrap: break-word;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;display: inline-block;vertical-align: inherit;width: 18px;box-sizing:border-box;"></span></span></section></section><section style="margin-right: 2em; margin-left: 2em; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px; text-align: center;"><p style="text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;">一、福利时间</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">晚20:00—00:00均可领取现金红包</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;"><br></p><p style="text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;">二、参与方式</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">晚20:00—00:00回复当天【晚8点红包】贴</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">即可</strong></span><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; caret-color: red; box-sizing: border-box;">领取现金红包</strong><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; caret-color: red; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;">(必须在手机客户端参与哦)</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;"><br></p><p style="text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;">三、友情提示</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">恶意灌水/答非所问 无效</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: left; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">未在规定时间内回复 无效</strong></span></p></section><section style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; width: 28px; height: 28px; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229); border-radius: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: 4px auto; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; width: 18px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;"><span wx-style="display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;display: block;width: 100%;transform: rotate(180deg);visibility: visible ;" style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;overflow-wrap: break-word;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;display: inline-block;vertical-align: inherit;width: 18px;box-sizing:border-box;"></span></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><br></p><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><br></p><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";"><strong>注意!</strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";"><strong>一定要在评论过后的【晚8点】</strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";"><strong>来领取现金红包哦!</strong></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; list-style: none; max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="list-style: none; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px; 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一,和同事的关系
同事是因为事业目标,主动聚在一起的。当然,这个主动有时不平等。
比如你面试时,你选择这个岗位和公司,由于地位原因,也许本身就不平等。其他同事,是领导选的,不是你选的话,也不平等。
但归根结底,同事们聚在一起总体上是为了事业目标。我们作为打工人,当然可以说大家都为了挣钱。
我觉得因为这个不平等,我们很多时候会碰上我们不喜欢的人,而且还不得不和对方合作。职位越低这种概率越大,随着职位的上升,可以选择合作对象,甚至是自己招人组建自己的团队。
不管合作对象是领导指定的,还是你自己选的,都可能会存在和你不同频,甚至你觉得没成为朋友的人。
不建议,以交朋友或者是都有亲密、好的关系来看待同事关系。和同事的合作,大家能都达成工作目标,然后达成目标的过程没有沟通障碍、没有因为价值观甚至是偏见而推行不畅,那这个同事关系就已经很不错了。如果再要求关系亲密甚至除开工作还能一起玩,那就是朋友了。
在工作中当然可以交朋友,只是这和生活里、学校里交朋友,是一样的。不因为我们是同事,所以就是朋友。因为我们志趣相投,或者仅仅是能分享信息,那也是朋友。
在人际关系课程里,把朋友分成等级,比如密友、好友、朋友、认识的人。同事,当然可以是认识的人或者朋友或者好友甚至密友。在工作中交朋友,对朋友的认识清晰很重要,合得来进一步发展成好友也可以。
我不反对工作中交朋友,工作占据了我们很多时间,一天最少10小时是工作关系,我们还在这中间获得金钱,如果能认识和我志趣相投而又互相看得上愿意进一步交往地我会发展成朋友关系。当然朋友有很多等级,能提供有用的生活信息是朋友,能谈家里的私事私下喝酒也是朋友。
二,和同学的关系
在学校的时候,交友很多的时候不需要主动。住宿舍,有学校安排,大家一起上课,有学校安排。很多人习惯了学校的安排,而不能主动去结实其他的朋友,我觉得也挺可惜的。
同学关系和同事关系,本质上没什么不同。你不会和初中同学都有不间断地联系,你也不会和前公司的同事都有不断地联系。社会关系的本质就是,因为一个目标,聚在一起。因为下一个目标,再和另一群人相聚。
大家都觉得同学关系单纯,而怀念。甚至初出职场时心有戚戚,觉得再也收获不了单纯地人际关系了。我对这种心态不以为然。
同学关系单纯,是因为每个人的目标是独立的,每人为自己的学业负责,这中间很少涉及钱或者利益,大家就自然觉得单纯。当然,也有愿意为他人付出的人,比如那个给你打饭的上铺、那个督促你去自习的同桌。
同事关系,为了部门利益会争取,为了推卸责任会避重就轻,大家就觉得不单纯。大家在工作中看到的人性或者不好,这本身就是社会本身,在任何一个社会利益体里都有或多或少。但我不认为,这表示同事关系不单纯。和同事,就是大家都有工作目标,能和人合作实现自己的工作目标、解决问题就行。不要在意那个为了争取不顾底线的人,你不认可你不这样做,甚至不和他发展为朋友就是了。要望同事而兴叹的,是不是心理不够强大?
祝大家,努力在成人的世界里,发现和自身志趣相投、三观一致,甚至因为短期目标一致,而互相吸引互相交往的人。不对单纯或人性,轻易肯定或否定。 看情况吧!现在人心隔肚皮,谁都了解不了! 应该和同事处理好关系 但是不是每个同事都能成为朋友 能成为朋友的不一定是同事现在这个风气复杂的社会环境交友一定要慎重 那是必须的!只有同志关系融洽才能更好的工作! 同事关系融洽,工作得心应手,有事相互帮忙,其乐融融! 不大可能,必定是工作关系 合得来谁都可以成为朋友,和同事处好关系有必要,不一定要成为朋友