6.19【晚8点红包】你觉得夫妻之间应该有善意的谎言吗？什么情况下不能撒谎？
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1px;letter-spacing: 2.5px;font-size: 17px;">@耀友们，</span></p><p style="list-style: none; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em;"><span style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow: rgb(227, 108, 9) 1px 1px 1px;letter-spacing: 2.5px;font-size: 17px;">你觉得夫妻之间应该有善意的谎言吗？</span></p><p style="list-style: none; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em;"><span style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow: rgb(227, 108, 9) 1px 1px 1px;letter-spacing: 2.5px;font-size: 17px;">什么情况下不能撒谎？</span></p><p style="list-style: none; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: medium; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em;"><br></p><p><span 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style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); list-style: none; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit;"><br></p></section></section><p style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://www.yewn.cn/data/attachment/forum/202406/14/091335xj7emdbtbmmhivrb.png"></p><p style="display: none;"><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p></div><p></p> 个人观点我觉得应该有善意的谎言 大事不撒谎 违背道德伦理的事儿不能撒谎 小事像夫妻之间的相处，可以适当的撒点谎
像过节送个小礼品啊 如果没有准备可以适当的撒个谎
有人说夫妻之间必须绝对坦诚，而不能有什么“善意的诺言”。我觉得这种说法并不正确。“绝对坦诚”与“善意谎言”并不互相排斥，非此即彼。在很多情况下，“善意的谎言”也是”绝对坦诚“的表现。
夫妻之间坦诚是必须的。坦诚的根本目的就是为了婚姻的稳固。从这个意义上说，善意的谎言何尝不是如此呢？许多时候善意的谎言就是爱的表现，就是为了避免误会、减少矛盾，从而促进婚姻关系的稳固。
比如，你生病了，远方的另一半打电话问你的时候，你总是说”好好的，放心吧“。你这善意的谎言是不想让他（她）担心。当他知道真相后会对你心生感激。这不是爱的表现吗？
比如，你做的菜自己都觉得不咋的，另一半却假装吃得津津有味，一边吃一边说“好吃，十分好吃”。 这善意的谎言是为了让你有成就感。你明知道这是谎言，却心里充满了感激。这不是爱的表现吗？
比如，另一半与异性同事商讨工作回家晚了。回来之后告诉你他在路上遇到朋友聊了几句耽误了时间。这善意的谎言是不想让你误会而心生不悦。这不是爱的表现吗？
所以夫妻之间坦诚必不可少，善意的谎言也不能没有。善意的谎言是出于美好愿望，是一种理解、尊重和宽容的表现，也是夫妻间真情的流露。 遇到情况而定，谁不说违心话做违心事呢 应该以诚相待，什么情况下应不应该有谎言 夫妻间善意的谎言还必须要有，这样婚姻的殿堂才会更加牢不可破。正如上边那个楼主的举例，我很赞同其观点 可以有善意的谎言。原则问题不能说谎 遇到情况而定，谁不说违心话做违心事呢。 我们常说，诚实是婚姻的基石，但有时，过于诚实却弊大于利。
相反，有时候用一些善意的谎言反而会加深夫妻之间的感情。
这个时候，就要分清什么该说谎，什么不该说谎。
1.不喜欢对方的衣品
2.没有完全了解的事情
3.涉及家人的事情。
4.涉及金钱
5.与孩子相关的事
6.与异性的事
我老婆从来没有给我说过谎，一般都会同意的