5.10【晚8点红包】你如何看待有些父母拿孩子作比较这件事？反对还是支持？
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0);'><strong><span style='font-size: 16px;'><span leaf="">@耀友们，</span><span leaf=""><br></span></span></strong></span></section><section style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);line-height: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 0, 0);'><strong><span style='font-size: 16px;'><span leaf="">你如何看待有些父母拿孩子作比较这件事？</span></span></strong></span></section><section style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);line-height: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 0, 0);'><strong><span style='font-size: 16px;'><span leaf="">反对还是支持？</span><span leaf=""><br></span><span leaf=""><br></span></span></strong></span></section><section nodeleaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);line-height: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 0, 0);'><strong><span style='font-size: 16px;'><span leaf=""></span></span></strong></span></section></section><p style='letter-spacing: 1.5px;color: rgb(51, 51, 51);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;list-style: none;background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254);outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='list-style: none;text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;font-size: 16px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;' data-mpa-action-id="ma4r9ihi1ss4"><span leaf="">小编先来</span></span></p><span data-pm-slice="0 0 []" data-mpa-action-id="mahkqdusrmb" style='font-size: 16px;'><span leaf="" style='color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.6; letter-spacing: 0.034em;'><span textstyle='' style='color: rgb(217, 33, 66);'>我不支持</span></span></span><strong style='font-size: 16px;'><span leaf="" style='color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.6; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-weight: normal;'><br></span></strong></section><section data-role="paragraph" deep="17" style='list-style: none; text-align: center;' data-mpa-action-id="maaf4c211ukc" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><strong style='font-size: 16px;'><span leaf="" style='color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.6; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-weight: normal;'><span textstyle=''>父母不应该总拿其他孩子与自己的孩子进行比较</span></span></strong><span style='font-size: 16px;'><span leaf="" style='color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.6; letter-spacing: 0.034em;'><span textstyle='' style='color: rgb(217, 33, 66);'></span></span></span></section><section data-role="paragraph" deep="17" style='list-style: none; text-align: center;' data-mpa-action-id="maaf4c211ukc" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span data-mpa-action-id="mahkqdusb5l" style='font-size: 16px;'><span leaf="" style='color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.6; letter-spacing: 0.034em;'><span textstyle='' style='color: rgb(217, 33, 66);'>这种做法的负面影响远大于其可能的激励作用</span></span></span></section><section data-role="paragraph" deep="17" style='list-style: none; text-align: center;' data-mpa-action-id="maaf4c211ukc" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span data-mpa-action-id="mahkqdusb5l" 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BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit;'><span style='color: rgb(255, 0, 0); outline: 0px; text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 0.125em 0.125em 0.625em; font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; list-style: none; font-weight: 700;'>参与活动拿红包，请速速入群</span></p></section><p style='text-align: center;'><span leaf=""><img src="https://www.yewn.cn/data/attachment/forum/202505/08/084955ayso9imytzmogryo.png"></span></p><p style='display: none;'><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p></div><p></p> 小孩子各有各的优点，不能和别的孩子比 别人的老婆（老公）自己的娃，总爱听人说自己的孩子如何的聪明，如何的能干，成绩如何优秀，我不希望比较 不要拿自己孩子与别人作比较。一个孩子，
有一个孩子的特点。
別的孩子有的，
自己的孩子不一定有。
自己孩子有的，
别的孩子也不一定有。
人与人没有可比性，
做好自己就行了。 是拿自己的孩子之间比还是与同龄孩子相比！？！因为各种因素不同，有些是没有可比性的，谈何反对与支持！？
教训下一代时不比是不可能的，有时候随嘴说的比较会给孩子心里带来阴影。对孩子以后的生活有影响的。 坚决反对拿别人的孩子与自己孩子做比较 坦率的说 本座反对拿孩子与别人家孩子比较 这是个错误教育方法
多发现孩子的优点
天赋异禀的孩子毕竟是少数
努力在天赋面前不值一提
没什么可比的。 没有可比性，不比较。 没有什么可比的，谁家的孩子谁都觉得最好