9.20【晚8点红包】你觉得退休后是该帮子女带娃，还是享受自己的生活？
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254);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: medium;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 2px;text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px;outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-size-adjust: 100%;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;cursor: pointer;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">注意！</span></span></p><section align="center" style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);list-style: none;background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254);outline: 0px;text-size-adjust: 100%;-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;cursor: pointer;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;"><p style="list-style: none;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(33, 33, 34);letter-spacing: 2px;font-size: 16px;outline: 0px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">晚8点红包到账记录</span></span></p></section><section align="center" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);list-style: none;background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254);outline: 0px;text-size-adjust: 100%;-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;cursor: pointer;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;"><p style="list-style: none;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(33, 33, 34);letter-spacing: 2px;font-size: 16px;outline: 0px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">请在“天天领红包”奖励金里查看哦！</span></span></p></section><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);list-style: none;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(255, 41, 65);"><span leaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;vertical-align: inherit;display: inline;"></span></span><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span leaf=""><br></span></span></strong></span><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="color: rgb(217, 33, 66);font-weight: bold;">@渭南人，</span></span><span leaf=""><br></span></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);list-style: none;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="color: rgb(217, 33, 66);font-weight: bold;">你觉得退休后是该帮子女带娃，</span></span></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);list-style: none;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="color: rgb(217, 33, 66);font-weight: bold;">还是享受自己的生活？</span></span><span leaf=""><br></span><span leaf=""><br></span></p><section><span leaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></span></section></section><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; list-style: none; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em;"><span style="list-style: none;text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;font-size: 16px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;" data-mpa-action-id="ma4r9ihi1ss4"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="letter-spacing: 1px;">小编先来</span></span></span></p></section><p style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif; line-height: 2em;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf="" style=""><span textstyle="" style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><font color="#ff0000">老人退休后是否帮助子女带娃</font></span></span></p><p style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif; line-height: 2em;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><font color="#ff0000">是一个家庭内部的问题</font></span></span></p><p style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif; line-height: 2em;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><font color="#ff0000">需要家庭成员之间进行沟通和协商</font></span></span></p><p style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif; line-height: 2em;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><font color="#ff0000">无论是选择帮助子女带娃</font></span></span></p><p style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif; line-height: 2em;"><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><font color="#ff0000">还是选择享受晚年生活</font></span></span></p><p style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif; line-height: 2em;"><span leaf="" style=""><span textstyle="" style="letter-spacing: 1px;"><font color="#ff0000">老人都应该得到子女的尊重和支持</font></span></span></p><section data-role="paragraph" deep="17" style="list-style: none; text-align: center;" data-mpa-action-id="maaf4c211ukc" data-pm-slice="0 0 []" 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style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: center;"><section style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 28px;height: 28px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229);border-radius: 100%;"><section style="margin: 4px auto;list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 18px;"><span style="list-style: none;"><span leaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;vertical-align: inherit;display: inline;"></span></span></span></section></section><section data-autoskip="1" style="margin-right: 2em;margin-left: 2em;list-style: none;outline: 0px;font-size: 14px;"><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">一、福利时间</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">晚20:00—00:00均可领取现金红包</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span leaf=""><br></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">二、参与方式</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">晚20:00—00:00回复当天【晚8点红包】贴</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">即可</span></span><span style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">领取现金红包</span></span><span style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;caret-color: red;font-size: 15px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">（必须在手机客户端参与哦）</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span leaf=""><br></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">三、友情提示</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">恶意灌水/答非所问 无效</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;"><span leaf="">未在规定时间内回复 无效</span></span></p><p style="list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;"><span style="list-style: 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font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei"; list-style: none; font-weight: 700;">参与活动拿红包</span></p></section><p><span leaf=""><br></span></p><p style="display: none;"><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p></div><p></p> 什么叫享受生活？带孙子也是一种享受生活的方式，带也是应该，不带也有道理，有的老人帮带孙子，但儿媳并不领情，感觉是理所当然，这是错娱的想法，帮是情份，不帮不要为难，就看她的出发点在哪，目的又是什么要清楚，一般情况下老人都愿意帮忙带娃的，没有老人不疼自己的孩子的，带孙子就是疼儿子你们是不是？ 这个就没有什么该不该。没事闲着身体允许的话帮带带也是一种享受 带孩子也是一种享受，不带也可享受自己的老年生活，这两不矛盾 这个我觉得还是看个人吧，我的孩子也是基本我带呢。 我觉得退休以后还是要有自己的生活，忙了半辈子，也该歇歇了，种种花儿，养养草，读读书，旅旅游，培养点精神爱好好的，但是子女需要，还是适当的要伸以援手。毕竟他们即要上班，还要孩子，可能会忙不过来。所以该帮还是要帮的，努力的托举，让他们生活的更好。 不是你觉得而且你能不能
这要看
各个家庭的具体情况 帮孩子带娃
是一种生活
自己的生活
也是一种生活
具体选择哪一种
不以个人意志为转够
各个家庭情况不同
所以
有些事情
并不由你选择
也由不得你决定
顺其自然就好。 有时间肯定帮忙带， 坦率的说 小秋本次话题契合老夫
老夫非常尊重退休这两个字
老夫恪守退休这两个字的字面含义
既然老夫退了
安心的休息
安心的修复年轻时沉浸式的工作为身体带来的伤痛
免费的工作五粮液酒 . 也侵害身体 健康。赢得高端客户大订单 ，也遗留下身体的伤痛。
老夫退休下来了
老夫绝不恋栈 。
安安心心的休息
享受老夫奋斗后舒缓退休生活。
一代人有一代人的历史使命
妥善的安排完属于自己的责任与义务。
至于帮子女带孩子 老夫就不参与了
果断的让位于孩子
让孩子亲自深度体验亲子互动的美妙时光。
孩子亲自深度体验属于自己辅导作业时的鸡飞狗跳美妙时光的每一分钟。
老夫退休下来继续坚持自己没时间实现的小爱好 趁着胃口尚好 探索寻觅老夫感兴趣的硬菜美食。尝试着自己提高厨艺 岂不快哉