10.12【晚8点红包】多子女家庭，如何分担老人养老？大家家里都是怎么处理的！
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leaf=""><br></span></p></section><section nodeleaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></section><p><span leaf=""><br></span></p><p style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 1.5px; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); list-style: none; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="list-style: none;text-shadow: #ffc000 2px 2px 10px;color: #ff0000;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;letter-spacing: 1px;"><span leaf="">小编先来：</span></span></p><p style="background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); list-style: none; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf="">轮流养</span></p><p style="background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); list-style: none; outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 1.75em;" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf="">到谁了谁去接</span></p><p style="background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); list-style: none; 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background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit;"><span leaf=""><img src="https://www.yewn.cn/data/attachment/forum/202510/09/154920t3qxh1aa0a513n3n.png"></span></p><p style="display: none;"><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p></div><p></p> 我是弟兄两个，说的父母是我养，有事我哥也管，再说养父母那是儿女的责任，没有必要为了养老人兄弟闹的不愉快，只要有孝心就好， 有钱出钱有力出力，每个子女都尽自己的义务。 这个真不好说，家家情况不一样。处理也就不一样了 在赡养老人的事情上一般遵循的是有钱的出钱，没钱的出力，别等棍棍齐，每个人的状况都不一样，总之就是，让老人能安享晚年，因为我们每个人都会老的，尤其是有孩子的人，孩子们别看小时候没有分辨是非的能力，但是有学习能力，会有样学样，你如何对待老人，孩子将来也会这样对待自己的。 有钱的出钱，有力的出力，个人尽个人的心吧 坚持“两大原则”最重要！在越来越多的多子女家庭中，关于照顾老人的问题，必须讲究公平和责任。一方面，如果老人已经将自己的财产分配给了某个子女，那么承担赡养老人的主要责任理应落到这个子女身上；
另一方面，对于老人手中尚未分配的共同财产，全体子女都应共同分担养老义务，无人可以推诿。
值得注意的是，有些子女出于孝心，总是冲在前面，承担所有压力。
但这样做，往往容易让父母形成过度依赖，也可能引发其他兄弟姐妹的不满——甚至被误解为有所企图。
即便只是单纯的好心，这种“一肩挑”的方式并不可取。
因此，最明智的做法是遇到养老相关的问题时，主动与兄弟姐妹沟通协商。每个人都应承担起应有的责任，对于金钱和劳力，不应互相攀比、逃避。
父母属于全体子女，共同分担才最公平。
唯有如此，在老人身边尽孝才能问心无愧，并且，在未来面对遗产分配问题时，每位子女都能从容面对。
这不仅是对长辈的责任，也是家庭成员间应有的理解和尊重。
这个话题，怎么回答，我身边没儿没女的好多怎么养老 我个人觉得一家一个月赡养老人。或者是有钱出钱，有力出力。 我不知道人家是怎样分配的，反正我家是我再养着。我哥一年到头也就跟走亲戚一样，可能来个1-2次。