11.14【晚8点红包】你觉得“吃亏是福”在当今社会还适用吗？
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leaf="">晚8点红包到账记录</span></span></p></section><section align="center" style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);list-style: none;background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254);outline: 0px;text-size-adjust: 100%;-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;cursor: pointer;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;'><p style='list-style: none;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;'><span style='list-style: none;color: rgb(33, 33, 34);letter-spacing: 2px;font-size: 16px;outline: 0px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">请在“天天领红包”奖励金里查看哦！</span></span></p></section><p style='color: rgb(62, 62, 62);list-style: none;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;'><span style='list-style: none;color: rgb(255, 41, 65);'><span leaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;vertical-align: inherit;display: inline;'></span></span><strong><span style='font-size: 16px;'><span leaf=""><br></span></span></strong></span><span leaf=""><span textstyle='' style='color: rgb(217, 33, 66);font-weight: bold;'>@耀友们，</span></span><span leaf=""><br></span></p><p style='color: rgb(62, 62, 62);list-style: none;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;'><span leaf=""><span textstyle='' style='color: rgb(217, 33, 66);font-weight: bold;'>你觉得“吃亏是福”在当今社会还适用吗</span></span><span leaf=""><br></span></p><section nodeleaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section><section><span leaf=""><br></span></section></section><p style='letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; list-style: none; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em;'><span style='list-style: none;text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;font-size: 16px;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;' data-mpa-action-id="ma4r9ihi1ss4"><span leaf=""><span textstyle='' style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>小编先来</span></span></span></p></section><section style='text-align: center; line-height: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; float: none; display: inline !important;' data-pm-slice="0 0 []" data-mpa-action-id="mhy9hwao1g7t"><span leaf=""><span textstyle='' style='letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(217, 33, 66);'>在当今社会依然适用</span></span></span></section><section style='text-align: center; line-height: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; float: none; display: inline !important;' data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf=""><span textstyle='' style='letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(217, 33, 66);'>但其价值取决于具体情境和个人</span></span></span></section><section style='text-align: center; line-height: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; float: none; display: inline !important;' data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf=""><span textstyle='' style='letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(217, 33, 66);'>在于主动选择有意义的付出</span></span></span></section><section style='text-align: center; line-height: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; float: none; display: inline !important;' data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf=""><span textstyle='' style='letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(217, 33, 66);'>而非被动忍受不公</span></span></span><span leaf=""></span></section><section data-role="paragraph" deep="17" style='list-style: none; text-align: center;' data-mpa-action-id="maaf4c211ukc" data-pm-slice="0 0 []" data-mp-plugin="96weixin"><section><span data-pm-slice="0 0 []" data-mpa-action-id="mahkqdusrmb" style='font-size: 16px;'><span style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "PingFang SC", "Lantinghei SC", "Microsoft YaHei", arial, 宋体, sans-serif, tahoma; text-align: start; float: none; display: inline !important;' data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><span leaf="" data-pm-slice="1 1 [" para",{"tagname":"section","attributes":{"data-role":"paragraph","deep":"17","style":"margin-bottom:="" 0px;list-style:="" none;text-align:="" 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inline-block;background: rgb(255, 255, 255);'><span style='list-style: none;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">晚8点红包规则</span></span></section></section><section style='padding: 2em 1em;list-style: none;outline: 0px;'><section style='padding-top: 2em;list-style: none;outline: 0px;'><section style='list-style: none;outline: 0px;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: center;'><section style='list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 28px;height: 28px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(229, 229, 229);border-radius: 100%;'><section style='margin: 4px auto;list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 18px;'><span style='list-style: none;'><span leaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;vertical-align: inherit;display: inline;'></span></span></span></section></section><section data-autoskip="1" style='margin-right: 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700;'><span leaf="">晚20:00—00:00回复当天【晚8点红包】贴</span></span></p><p style='list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;'><span style='list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">即可</span></span><span style='list-style: none;outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">领取现金红包</span></span><span style='list-style: none;outline: 0px;caret-color: red;font-size: 15px;font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">（必须在手机客户端参与哦）</span></span></p><p style='list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;'><span leaf=""><br></span></p><p style='list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;'><span style='list-style: none;color: rgb(255, 0, 0);text-shadow: rgb(255, 192, 0) 2px 2px 10px;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">三、友情提示</span></span></p><p style='list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;'><span style='list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;'><span 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none;'><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p></div><p></p> 吃亏会让你有吃不完的亏，六十年代~九十年代还挺实用的 都说吃亏是福，可是亏吃的多了，人家就觉得你人傻好欺负。现在的社会太残酷了，柿子也挑软的捏，老实人吃亏太多。最后也是伤的最深。 做人还是要实诚一点 “吃亏是福”是胡说八道，这绝不是正常人的原则。有人说中国文化里“吃亏是福”，作为父母，要不要这样教育孩子？“吃亏是福”就是胡说八道。你想想，若“吃亏是福”真成了大多数人的价值观，要是有人吃亏，就必然得有人占便宜。那么，如果你主张“吃亏是福”，你实际上也是在放任少部分人占便宜。
如果你说“吃亏是福”，那你就有吃不完的亏；你觉得“吃亏是福”，我就正好欺负你——我欺负你，我有好处，你自己还认为有好处，因为你觉得是“福”。我欺负你越多，你吃亏越多，“福”就越大。所以，“吃亏是福”绝不是正常人的原则。
不吃亏，也不占便宜，才是我们做事的原则。如果我们做事的原则是不占别人便宜，但也不允许别人占我们便宜；如果我们跟别人打交道，一定是平等的、互利的、双赢的，而不是一方吃亏、一方占便宜，那我们做事的原则就是平等待人，不吃亏也不占便宜，这才能成为一种正常的价值观。否则，我们是在鼓励坏人变得更恶、更坏，去占大家的便宜。
此外，“吃亏是福”也是一种心理安慰。有时候确实吃亏了，不要太计较，但你得想下一次不能再吃亏了，对吗？那就说明吃亏是不好的。
“吃亏是福”的意思仿佛是：这次吃了亏太好了，下次还要继续吃亏，这样才有福报，来生就不吃亏了，就能去占别人的便宜了。
作为父母来说，千万不要教育孩子“吃亏是福”，当然不能教育孩子要吃亏，也不能教育孩子去占便宜。
吃亏是福。要看什么情况， 肯定是不使用的，现在这个社会越软弱，别人越会欺负你，他还会起到你头上来，所以说大家吃饭都是吃自己的，不要低头，不要卑微，还是要有自己的见解，要有自己的意识，还有自己的独到之处，千万不要被别人欺负了，吃亏是福，这个绝对是特错大错，而且一定要给自己的孩子去说清楚，千万不要送媳妇是欺负了别人还会蹬鼻子上脸，让你很卑微，千万不要吃亏是福 吃亏是福本来就是错误的，凭什么要吃亏？人本来就是活一辈子的特别不容易，还要吃亏，还要受气太不容易了所以说我就都没有必要本来自己挣钱自己花凭什么看别人脸色凭什么要卑微所以说我觉得人要有志气，要有自知之明，千万不要吃亏，负责人来往，对于那种人零容忍，千万不要理他们，不要和他们一般见识。 让你吃亏是福的这种人太可恶了，虽说这种人拒绝交往不和他们说话，不和他们来往，他们伤害了你，你还觉得吃亏是福，那肯定是不对的，岁数千万不要以为吃亏是福，他们只会越来越过分，要交给自己的孩子，不惹事，不怕事，但是不能吃亏是福 绝对不能这样说什么，吃亏是福这样的话只能让有的人特别嚣张特别霸道，让他们蹬鼻子上脸还会越来越霸道，还会越来越肆无忌惮，岁数这种人千万不能容忍，对他们我们坚决说不不和他们交往不和他们有任何的关系断绝和他们的一切来往然后从此都不要见他们。所以说大家一定要活得有尊严一点。