4.22【晚8点红包】退休后你愿意去大城市帮子女带娃，还是留在老家自己养老？
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section data-role="paragraph" style='list-style: none; visibility: visible;' data-mp-plugin="96weixin" data-mpa-action-id="mo3qehiub2i" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><section data-role="paragraph" data-mp-plugin="96weixin" style='font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); list-style: none;'><p style='list-style: none;'><span wx-style='' style='list-style: none;'><span leaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;font-size: 17px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;text-align: center;letter-spacing: 0.034em;display: inline;width: 676.994px;background-color: transparent;'></span></span></span></p></section><section data-role="paragraph" deep="17" data-mp-plugin="96weixin" style='list-style: none; text-align: center;' data-mpa-action-id="mn5edry01yfj" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><p style='font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); margin-bottom: 0em; list-style: none;'><span leaf=""><br></span></p><section align="center" style='letter-spacing: 0.578px;font-family: Helvetica, Arial, STHeiTi, sans-serif;color: #333333;list-style: none;outline: 0px;text-size-adjust: 100%;-webkit-tap-highlight-color: #00000000;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;cursor: pointer;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;'><p style='color: #000000;letter-spacing: normal;background-color: #fcfdfe;list-style: none;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: medium;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;'><span style='list-style: none;color: #ff0000;letter-spacing: 2px;text-shadow: #ffc000 2px 2px 10px;outline: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-size-adjust: 100%;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;cursor: pointer;font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">注意！</span></span></p><section align="center" style='color: #3e3e3e;letter-spacing: normal;background-color: #fcfdfe;list-style: none;outline: 0px;text-size-adjust: 100%;-webkit-tap-highlight-color: #00000000;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;cursor: pointer;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;'><p style='list-style: none;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;'><span style='list-style: none;color: #212122;letter-spacing: 2px;font-size: 16px;outline: 0px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">晚8点红包到账记录</span></span></p></section><section align="center" style='letter-spacing: normal; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); list-style: none; outline: 0px; text-size-adjust: 100%; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; cursor: pointer; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial;'><p style='list-style: none;color: #3e3e3e;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 2em;'><span style='list-style: none;color: #212122;letter-spacing: 2px;font-size: 16px;outline: 0px;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">请在“天天领红包”奖励金里查看哦！</span></span></p></section><p style='color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: normal; list-style: none; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em;'><span style='list-style: none;color: #ff2941;'><span leaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;vertical-align: inherit;list-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;cursor: pointer;display: inline;background-color: transparent;'></span></span><span leaf=""><br></span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: normal; list-style: none; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em;'><span style='color: #ff2941;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;'><span leaf="">@耀友们</span><span leaf=""><br></span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: normal; list-style: none; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em;'><span style='color: #ff2941;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;'><span leaf="">你愿意去大城市帮子女带娃</span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(62, 62, 62); letter-spacing: normal; list-style: none; vertical-align: inherit; line-height: 2em;'><span style='color: #ff2941;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;'><span leaf="">还是留在老家自己养老</span></span></p><section nodeleaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;'></span></section></section><section style='letter-spacing: 1.5px;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;color: #333333;background-color: #fcfdfe;list-style: none;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;line-height: 1.75em;margin-top: 8px;'><span style='list-style: none;text-shadow: #ffc000 2px 2px 10px;color: #ff0000;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;letter-spacing: 1px;'><span leaf="">小编先来</span></span></section></section><p style='text-align: center; list-style: none; line-height: 2em; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 16px;color: #ff4c41;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;'><span leaf="">更愿意在老家</span></span></p><p style='text-align: center; list-style: none; line-height: 2em; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 16px;color: #ff4c41;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;'><span leaf="">种种花养养鱼</span></span></p><p style='text-align: center; list-style: none; line-height: 2em; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 16px;color: #ff4c41;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;'><span leaf="">度过晚年</span></span></p><p style='text-align: center; list-style: none; line-height: 2em; visibility: visible;'><span style='color:#ff4c41;font-family:mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;'><span style='font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;'><span leaf="">操劳一辈子还得带孩子</span></span></span></p><p style='text-align: center; list-style: none; line-height: 2em; visibility: visible;'><span style='color:#ff4c41;font-family:mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;'><span style='font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;'><span leaf="">太累了</span></span></span></p><section data-role="paragraph" deep="17" data-mp-plugin="96weixin" style='list-style: none; 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1px;border-bottom: 1px solid #e5e5e5;overflow: hidden;'><span leaf=""><br></span></section></section><section style='margin-top: -1.5em;list-style: none;outline: 0px;text-align: center;'><section data-brushtype="text" style='padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;list-style: none;outline: 0px;font-size: 20px;display: inline-block;background: #ffffff;'><span style='list-style: none;color: #000000;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">晚8点红包规则</span></span></section></section><section style='padding: 2em 1em;list-style: none;outline: 0px;'><section style='padding-top: 2em;list-style: none;outline: 0px;'><section style='list-style: none;outline: 0px;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: center;'><section style='list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 28px;height: 28px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: #e5e5e5;border-radius: 100%;'><section style='margin: 4px auto;list-style: none;outline: 0px;width: 18px;text-align: center;'><span style='list-style: 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style='list-style: none;text-align: left;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;'><span style='list-style: none;color: #ff0000;text-shadow: #ffc000 2px 2px 10px;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">二、参与方式</span></span></p><p style='list-style: none;text-align: left;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;'><span style='list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">晚20:00—00:00回复当天【晚8点红包】贴</span></span></p><p style='list-style: none;text-align: left;outline: 0px;vertical-align: inherit;'><span style='list-style: none;font-size: 15px;outline: 0px;font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">即可</span></span><span style='list-style: none;outline: 0px;font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">领取现金红包</span></span><span style='list-style: none;outline: 0px;caret-color: red;font-size: 15px;font-weight: 700;'><span leaf="">（必须在手机客户端参与哦）</span></span></p><p style='list-style: none;text-align: justify;outline: 0px;vertical-align: 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-apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); list-style: none; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(252, 253, 254); outline: 0px; vertical-align: inherit;'><span style='color: #ff0000;outline: 0px;text-shadow: #ffc000 0.125em 0.125em 0.625em;font-family: 微软雅黑, "Microsoft YaHei";list-style: none;font-weight: 700;'><span leaf=""><img src="https://www.yewn.cn/data/attachment/forum/202604/15/085345xo8t1okw3dutm3cr.png"></span></span></p></section><p style='display: none;'><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p></div><p></p> 我现在更愿意自己待着，能出钱尽量出点钱。 看情况吧，孩子需要帮忙就帮孩子带娃，不需要就回老家 目前，儿子还未成家，现在的退休生活是既舒适自由:遛弯做饭听听歌、品茶练字看看书。以后他成家有孩子了，他们可上我们带就去帮衬帮衬，能帮一把是一把。若从人的私心而言，我是特愿意过自己清净而毫无拘束的养老生活。 愿意留在老家自己养老。当然，如果孩子在大城市，需要帮忙带娃，会去帮一段时间，几年时间吧，后面还是愿意回来。毕竟父母亲友都在这边，这也是从小长大的环境，更熟悉一些。 退休生活三件事——一日三餐，
柴米油盐，
养生保健。
吃的香，
排的爽，
走的动，
睡的着…… 最好不要呆在一起，当然，孩子们需要的时候还得助一臂之力。 退休后，一个人穷游西藏 还是回老家舒服 有一种团聚叫反向团圆，就是父母奔去孩子工作的地方，今年春节我就去孩子那里。如果有孙子，那肯定要帮着带孩子，其实养老还是愿意在老家，但儿子有了下一代，我们肯定得去帮忙。